How People In Healthy Relationships Avoid Arguing All The Time…

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A 20-year-old kid once told me about his strategy for dealing with his pregnant girlfriend. 

The girlfriend’s hormones were raging, and that comes with mood swings. Female mood swings usually means them cursing you out, unprompted and unreasonably. 

I — and maybe you, if you’ve been on the receiving end of a pregnant or PMSing female outburst — make the mistake of trying to make sense of things, offering solutions or logically confronting the points of contention. 

FAIL. 

This 20-year-old told me, very succinctly, how he responded when his girl got crazy with him. 

“Allright.” 

Then it was over. 

Some of us “smart” ones try to confront the storm, and lose.

We could learn a lot from those who have less of a need to figure things out and be correct. 

We could learn a lot from those who have less of a need to figure things out and be correct.  Click To Tweet

When have you argued and wasted energy where you could have simply let things go? Reply and let me know — I read all responses. 

PS — I created the 3-book Leadership Bundle to help you learn how to deal with different people and all their moods and differences. 

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