If only this I’d be this. As soon as this happens, I’ll do that. If I had this like he has it, I’d be doing it too!
It’s like an employee who says she will start working harder… As soon as she gets that promotion. Name a boss who will promote that employee.
That if situation, you probably know, may never even happen. Then what will you do? Better question that’s not hypothetical: What are you doing with the current reality that is on your hands?
If you would do so much when things break perfectly, I would expect you to be making the absolute most of what you have now.